One honest letter, every Sunday

The thinking behind the training, the proof behind every rule, and the stuff dads don’t say out loud. Written by Tony, a dad of two with a corporate day job. Letter 001 is below. A new one lands every Sunday and gets posted here after. For the practical questions, the straight answers live in the field notes.

10.9 percent, and a pinch

I got a DEXA scan Wednesday. 10. 9 percent. In January it read 15. 9.

A runner coming up a wooden boardwalk between weathered fence posts, with sand dunes behind him.

I signed up for something

I'm doing Hyrox in December. Nothing's paid, registration isn't even open. But a date does something maintenance can't, and this week I'm asking you to put one on something.

A father and a small child standing together at the water's edge at dusk, backs to the camera, under a pink sky.

The car seat is a battle

We're in Nevada, it's 105 out, and the car seat is a full-body fight. The rep that mattered this week was loosening my grip, starting with a tin cup.

An unmade bed in a dark room, lit only by a small lamp on the nightstand.

I'm tired too

It's 9pm, the kids are down, and the last thing I want to do is anything. What works: the smallest possible thing, before your brain gets a vote.

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